Jealousy Test

1. Do you believe it is possible to be 'just friends' with someone of the opposite sex (if heterosexual) or same sex (if homosexual)?
   No
   Yes, providing there is no attraction between them
   Yes, if both people are already in relationships with other people
   Yes, of course
   

2. Do you believe you are good enough for your partner?
   Yes, absolutely!
   Yes, I think so
   Somewhat
   Not really
   No
   

3. Have you ever called to 'check up' on your partner and make sure s/he is really at work?
   No way!
   Yes, but just one time
   Yes, a few times
   Yes, often
   Yes, all the time
   

4. Have you ever followed your partner to see where s/he was really going?
   No
   Yes, one time
   Yes, more than once
   

5. Have you ever read your partner's email out of suspicion or curiosity?
   No
   Yes, one time
   Yes, more than once
   

6. Have you ever secretly checked your partner's phone messages?
   No
   Yes, one time
   Yes, more than once
   

7. Have you ever secretly listened in on your partner's telephone conversation?
   No
   Yes, one time
   Yes, more than once
   

8. Have you ever secretly opened and read your partner's mail?
   No
   Yes, one time
   Yes, more than once
   

9. How annoyed/insecure/threatened would you feel if a good friend told you that a rumor is circulating that your partner is cheating on you?
   Extremely
   Very
   Moderately
   A little
   Barely
   Not at all
   

10. How annoyed/insecure/threatened would you feel if an attractive person (male/female depending on sexual orientation) were LOOKING at your partner in a seductive manner?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

11. How annoyed/insecure/threatened would you feel if your partner had many close friends of the opposite sex (if heterosexual) or same sex (if homosexual)?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

12. How annoyed/insecure/threatened would you feel if your partner were going out to dinner with some old friends, and you were not invited?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

13. How many times have you smelled or inspected your partner's clothing for traces of a fragrance or cards/notes.
    Never
    One time
    More than once
    Often
    

14. How tempted would you be to read a letter your partner is writing to his/her closest friend?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

15. How would you feel about leaving your partner at home while YOU went on a three week business trip?
    Totally secure
    Pretty secure
    Okay
    Kind of insecure
    Very insecure
    

16. If a very attractive single person (male/female depending on sexual orientation) just started working with your partner, how annoyed/insecure/threatened would you feel?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

17. If an attractive person (male/female depending on sexual orientation) were FLIRTING with your partner at a party, how annoyed/insecure/threatened would that make you feel?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

18. If given the opportunity, do you believe your partner would leave you for someone better than you?
    No way!
    No, I don't think so
    Probably not
    Maybe
    Yes
    

19. If you and your partner were at a club with a group of friends, how annoyed/insecure/threatened would you feel if your partner started dancing with someone else from the group?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

20. If you ever broke up, how quickly would YOU find a replacement?
    Never
    A very long time
    A long time
    A while
    Not long
    Right away
    

21. If you ever broke up, how quickly would your partner find a replacement?
    Never
    A very long time
    A long time
    A while
    Not long
    Right away
    

22. If your partner suddenly began dressing differently, buy more clothes, or changing his/her hairstyle, how suspicious would you feel?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

23. If your partner took an unusually long time grooming one evening before going out, how suspicious/bothered would you feel?
    Extremely
    Very
    Moderately
    A little
    Barely
    Not at all
    

24. To what extent do you trust your partner's fidelity to you?
    Totally, without question
    A lot
    Somewhat
    Not that much
    Not at all
    

25. Would you feel insecure if your PARTNER had to leave town on a three week business trip?
    No, not at all
    No, not really
    Yes, a little
    Yes, moderately
    Yes, I would